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How to Break Up with a Boy

1. Consider why you're breaking up with him. Why are you breaking up with him? Is there even a reason? Make sure you're not breaking up with him because you're bored. Try to fix things. If you know that they can't be fixed, then it's time to let him go.

 

2. Drop Hints that you don't want to continue the relationship. When he comes in to kiss you, pull away. When he hugs you, don't hug back or pull away quickly. When he tells you he loves you, change the subject. Don't have deep hear-to-heart conversations with him. Don't overdo this step. The point is not to be mean, but rather to give him an idea that things are coming to an end so that he is prepared when you break up with him.

 

3. Prepare for the talk. Be sensitive. Break up with him face to face (unless the two of you are long distance—then a phone call or skype is the next best thing), and make sure the two of you are alone. Don't be mean or tell lies—tell him simply that you don't think that the relationship is working out. Try to avoid "let's just be friends" or "it's not you, it's me," as these cliches will make it sound like you haven't put much thought into his feelings. If you want to stay friends, tell him that. Be sure he knows that you want to give him time to get over you, though. Let him know that you're not going to make the first move at the friendship, but that once he feels ready to be friends he should give you a call. This will help give you both time apart to get over the relationship. Follow up on your promise to be friendly when he does call you. Be stern but kind. You don't want to get suckered back into the relationship because he makes you feel bad, but you don't want to hurt him more than you have to, either.

 

4. After the break up, let him ask questions. It's likely that he will want a bigger explanation, even if he doesn't say it right away. Be open to talking to him. It will show him you're open to talking, and thus that you'll work to be a good friend when he's ready. It will also give him the closure that he may need to move on.

 

5. Don't talk behind his back. Just because the two of you are broken up doesn't mean you can go spreading his deepest darkest secrets. You would want him to respect your privacy too, wouldn't you?

 

6. Keep the public hooking up with other guys to a minimum. A breakup is not a contest, and you're not going to win by hooking up with more people than your ex. If you can't help but enjoy the single life, keep the publicity to a minimum. Don't post statuses or pictures of it on Facebook, and don't parade around school with a new boy toy days after the breakup. This will only make your ex feel worse.

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how to tell a boy u like him

            

           How ot Tell a Boy You Like Him:

1 Give a few hints. Smile at him when he looks at you then when he smiles back turn away, talk to him as much as you can, look good when you walk by him, if he looks at you in class then he probably likes you back.

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2  Look at his friends. If he is with his friends and they are all looking at you then that means his friends like you too. Go for it he probably likes you. His friends might be jealous that he has you.

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3. Tell him. If you don't think he likes you then just build up the confidence and tell him, if you are scared like many others, don't worry. The worst thing he could do is say, no. Its not that big of a deal.

 

4. Tell a friend if you're scared. If you don't feel confident then tell a friend. Unless your friend is his cousin. They'll freak out and think your Humor is key if you are funny. this is another way to get a guy be funny around him make him laugh and he's yours.weird. If that's the case just don't tell them and go on ahead and ask him.

5.Humor is key if you are funny. this is another way to get a guy be funny around him make him laugh and he's yours.

 

6. Get to know him better. Maybe if he becomes your friend, he might notice who you really are.

 

7. Don't tell other people that you want to go out with him. Some people are loud and they might just say it accidentally and make him embarrassed.

 

8. He may think that he can run over you because you have a crush on him and wants him to like you. Do not let him do that. Stand up for yourself. Make him think your not interested. Don't look at him, stop laughing at his jokes, and talk to his friends not him. Also look extra pretty and pretend you don't know he is around. Look your best and when he says hi just say hey back and keep on walking.

 

9. Feel confident. Do not chew on your nails. Keep your head and chin up. Smile sweetly with your friends when he looks at you with out making contact. Show him that you're not boy crazy even if you are and he will definitely like you for that.

 

10. When you catch him looking flip your hair, bite your lip, or even simply wave at him.

 

11. Sometimes, its just best to talk with him in private, ask about a date or something. just say these exact words: "look, name, i really like you. wanna date?"

 

12. Write him love notes so that nobody will know. If you want, keep it anonymous. Make sure you say things like "Do you like me", or " Do you think I'm cute. If you're brave, write your name at the end!

 

13. If you like a guy and are afraid to tell him smile and flip your hair while moving your fingers back and fourth

 

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Humor is key if you are funny. this is another way to get a guy be funny around him make him laugh and he's yours.

 

 

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                         roxie